10 Tips for Making a Great First Impression on Video Dates

Are you looking for a more authentic way to connect with potential partners? As online dating culture evolves, more and more singles are growing tired of DMs and embracing the fun of video chatting.

If you’re new to video dating, it might take some time to adjust to the look, feel, and flow of on-camera conversations. But once you start screening dates and building connections via video, there’s no going back!

Here are 10 tips for making a great first impression on video dates.

10 Tips to Make a Great First Impression on a Video Date

Before the Video Date

Take your time getting ready (just like an IRL date!)

If the countdown to your video date has your nerves on edge, try thinking of it as a normal in-person date, and prepare accordingly. Whether you like to take a long shower, make yourself a drink, or spend time on hair and makeup, complete all of your usual pre-date rituals!

By the time your video date rolls around, you’ll be in the zone and ready to connect.

Test angles ahead of time

During your pre-date prep, test out a few different camera placements with the device you plan on using. The camera should be at eye level (or a tad bit higher) and capture you from the belly button-up.

Most importantly, settle down in a spot where you feel comfortable and at ease. Try to prop your phone up on something, rather than holding it, as the movement can be distracting.

Experiment with lighting

Good lighting can make or break your first impression. No one wants to chat with someone who’s shrouded in darkness!

For an optimal setup, position two light sources on either side of the camera, both pointing at you at a 45-degree angle. Keep them at equal height. If possible, make one brighter than the other to add a soft shadow to your face.

Prioritise good sound

Sound is often overlooked while preparing for a video date. But for the conversation to flow smoothly, crisp sound is essential!

Earbuds are usually the way to go, but if you don’t have any, place your device in a way that doesn’t cover up the speaker. Sit close enough so that your date can hear you loud and clear.

Eliminate distractions

If your setup is full of distractions, you risk making the wrong first impression. Choosing a quiet area where you can focus fully on your date demonstrates how much you care!

Additionally, remove things from your background that might draw attention (like TVs and open windows) and inform everyone in your household that you’ll be busy.

Grab water and hydrate

You have lots of talking ahead of you, so be sure you hydrate the day of your video call! Keep a glass of water on hand throughout your date, too, so you can continue chatting without your mouth getting dry.

During the Video Date

Maintain relaxed body language

Even over video, body language can go a long way. As you settle in and get talking, routinely check in with yourself and remember to take a deep breath and loosen any tight muscles.

Pro tip: matching your date’s body language can put them at ease, too. Don’t mimic every movement, but try to position yourself as they do throughout the call.

Hide your video tile from view

Can’t stop staring at your own face on video calls? Simply change your video settings to hide your tile. This will help you focus on your date for a more authentic, IRL-feeling conversation.

Don’t panic about ‘awkward’ moments

Let’s face it: video calls always have their awkward moments! If there’s a lag, freeze, or moments where you talk over each other, don’t panic. Moving on with confidence will keep the vibes good and the conversation flowing.

Stay positive, but plan an exit strategy

Above all, do your best to loosen up, stay positive, and remember that it’s only a video date. Even if virtual sparks aren’t flying, you deserve kudos for giving it a try and walking the path toward finding a match.

As a backup plan, brainstorm an exit strategy (like having to meet a friend) in case you feel the need to log off abruptly.

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